Did you know that children from wealthy families were said
to have been "born with a silver spoon"?
My cousin brother was born with a Pandora's box instead.
The box was there to take a picture of his parents holding him for the first
time. It was there to entrance him with a video of The Gummy Bear song when he
refused to eat. It was there when he was cranky; it was there to make him
happy. Digital devices like smartphones and tablets compromised my brother’s
childhood. He liked playing outdoors, but he loved the
shiny and sleek Pandora's boxes! He would play the same games on the phone
repeatedly. Engrossed in the phone, he would stop responding to people around
him. Because his school wanted to introduce "enhanced learning", my
brother got his very own iPad at seven years of age! The amount of time and
effort he put into playing games and downloading apps on the tablet surprised
me. There was a point when I even wondered if he was addicted. He became
reticent, yet more aggressive due to all the fighter and racing games he
played. I couldn't accept that he was wasting away his precious childhood in
front of a screen, which was slowly turning him into a machine such as itself.
There was even a time when I saw some disturbing content in the suggestions
list on YouTube while he was watching a simulation game. I was horrified by the
possibility of my brother's mind getting polluted. The thought of that
possibility becoming a reality drew the line for me.
Today, we are all living in a digital world. Though there
is technology all around us, somehow it has proven incapable of solving urgent
problems like Global Warming. We may leave the world before the system
collapses, but our children will suffer because they are the future. If we want
them to survive, then we need to nurture them in the right way. I know it would
be impossible to start lecturing teenagers on the adverse effects of over-using
technology. But there’s still hope with children. We can shape their future in
the right way. So, if we are handing a smartphone or a tablet to a child, then
we need to understand the consequences and act accordingly.
I firmly believe that children below the age of ten should
have restricted access to smartphones and tablets.
By restricted access, I mean the amount of time the child
spends using these devices at home, i.e., screen time. Writing
from direct experience, I am convinced that excessive screen time can have
adverse effects on young children. It can lead to difficulties in learning and
communication, along with a decrease in social skills. Immoderate usage can
also cause drastic behavioural changes. Online activity, of "digitalised
kids" between five and ten years, can expose them to cyberbullying and
undesirable content. At a very young age, children can become materialistic,
thereby plunging into needless consumerism and identity crisis. Above all,
essential parent-child relationships can deteriorate due to valuable time at
home lost inside luring screens.
Dr Nicole Beurkens (2017), a clinical child psychologist,
notes that "non-verbal (emotional) cues are a critical component of social
communication, and deficits in this area create difficulties for children in
forming relationships and communicating effectively with others."
Supporting her observation, researchers from the Boston University School of
Medicine suggest that children's over-indulgence in smart devices reduces their
sensorimotor and visual-motor skills (Walters, 2015). Therefore, it becomes
hard for digitalised kids to comprehend language and face-to-face interactions.
Also, the researchers find that these kids show a weakening of higher-level cognitive
skills needed for understanding subjects like math and science. According to Dr
Beurkens these skills belong to executive functions of the brain, which gets
impaired due to kids' particular overexposure to silly and fast-paced on-screen
games (Beurkens, 2017). She also warns parents not to use mobiles and tablets
to distract kids because not only do such tactics reduce their ability to
self-regulate, but they also act as conversation-killers, especially among
children of the same age.
An extensive study of digitally-active three-year-olds and
five-year-olds, conducted by a group of Canadian investigators, revealed the
dominating effects that increased screen time had on the behaviour of these
children (Tamana et al., 2019). Externalising problems such as inattention and
aggression and internalising problems like depression, withdrawal and anxiety,
seemed to have significantly affected those kids whose screen time was more
than two hours every day. Contrastingly, they discovered that those children who
spent the same amount of time in physical activities had almost no
mental-health complications. The association of screen time with behavioural
morbidities was higher than its effect on the kids' sleep patterns and
parenting style. Hence, their study proves how easily a
few extra hours can change the nature of a child: from cute to diabolic.
If you're looking for an amusing take of the relationship
between digital devices and children, then Dean Burnett, a doctor of
neuroscience, is your guy. In his article in The Guardian, Burnett writes about
the danger of having children around tablets; not the other way around. He is
determined that, due to their incapacity to hold things, toddlers mainly are
bound to drop/break these fragile and hard-to-repair gadgets, at least once
(Burnett, 2015). Though this is a hilarious insight, it is essential to note
the logic behind it: Don't give expensive devices to children unless you are
Bill Gates!
It would be ignorant of parents to assume that their kids'
activity on smart devices is restricted to playing games and watching colourful
YouTube videos. But, a survey taken in eleven countries presents many
respondents expressing concern over their children's exposure to immoral and
harmful content (Silver et al., 2019). It was only recently that an online-hoax
called Momo Challenge threatened the lives of young children who fell into its
traps. Moreover, physicians from the American College of Pediatricians affirm
that a lot of kids have social media accounts by the age of ten. While online,
they accidentally come across undesirable content, especially pornography
("The Impact of Media," 2016). The physicians assert that such
perversion of innocent minds can induce early sexual attitudes and
gender-stereotypical beliefs. Online activities further affect the morality of
children. An article in the Journal of Social Science reports the impact
cyberbullying has on all young minds associated with it. It claims that while
the victims of internet harassment descend into depression, anxiety and low
self-esteem, the bullies themselves succumb to risky behaviours and
belligerence and the bystanders experience agitation and guilt (D'Antona et
al., 2010). To avoid children underdoing such trauma, I would suggest parents
monitor screen time heavily. When I found out that my brother was under the
danger of exposure to illicit content, I immediately told his parents to
install parental control on his device and switch his account to YouTube
Kids.
Back when mobile phones were emerging as a fad, the main
reason why parents agreed to buy them for their children was for security
purposes. A research paper based on Roy Morgan's Young Australians Survey
concurs with this notion but informs that today the reasons for buying
smartphones are fast-changing. The document states that children, particularly
tweens, attracted mainly by the brand, the ringtones, the lastest application
facilities and appearance of the device, pressurise their parents to buy
expensive gadgets (Downie & Glazebrook, 2007). The research discloses that
many tweens fear missing out on new updates and models. It claims that these
children are attempting to establish their identity through possession of
"cool" phones. This materialistic attitude commercialises their
childhood and inflicts upon them, a never-ending consumer culture. The survey
notes the existence of such a culture predominantly among children from
low-income families. When their families' financial circumstances deny them the
needful, the survey opines, these kids undergo identity crises and begin to
experience psychosomatic dysfunctions (Downie & Glazebrook,
p.05).
A subtle existence of all the fore-mentioned traits existed
in my cousin brother as well. I have been in my brother's life since the day he
was born. Numerous times, I cradled him as a baby, fed him, bathed him and
watched him play. He used to be excessively tall and tanned for his age because
of all the time spent in the sun. My best memories of him involved him playing
games, both imaginary and real: jumping around chasing after footballs and narrating
tales about the tiny plastic people he stationed around huts he built out of
wet playground mud. But clearly, these activities did not define him as much as
the gadgets did. The first ten years of a child's life make up for his/her best
childhood. It's the time when kids begin to discover their surroundings; the
time they just go out and have fun! It's also a crucial time for them to bond
with their parents. It is at this pivotal phase of their lives that their
parents can undisputedly shape their minds, teach them moral values and help
them grow responsibly. So, when a lifeless machine substitutes the role of
parents and the outdoors, the child's attachment and loyalty immediately shift
to the former, creating a permanent break in his/her bond with the latter. But
even after knowing all these facts, some argue in favour of children having
access to digital devices.
Jordy Kaufman, director of a research facility called
BabyLab, insists that mobile phones and iPads are not like the traditional
television set or video games. He claims that their benefits are plenty when
used in the right way. He also believes that these devices can replace
traditional toys, saying that they have the potential to exceed the
teaching capacity by engaging the mirror neurons - which help the human brain
understand the virtual space - in children thereby increasing cognitive
development (Cocozza, 2014). Another scholar named Rosie Flewitt, from the
Institute of Education at the University of London, talks about the benefits of
tablet use in early primary education (Cocozza, 2014).
Tablet learning can curb creativity and imagination by
reducing children to a fixed framework and not allowing them to think outside
the box. But that is one minor setback which can be overlooked if the tablets
are only used for educational purposes. So, while I agree with Miss Flewitt
about tablet learning stimulating intelligence in children, I cannot accept Mr
Kaufman's arguments. Scientific research and testing prove that giving tablet access
to young children (between 24-60 months) can lead to poor
performances that are undetectable to parents (Madigan et
al., 2019). Due to this factor, parents will be oblivious to how their children
utilise their gadgets. Without parental control, the ethical and moral usage of
devices is highly tested. Also, I strongly question the advantage of replacing
traditional toys with tablets. I remember witnessing my brother once trying to
move a building block from the floor by placing his finger in the air around it
and swiping up. He was trying to move the block without even touching it! Very
young children are not capable of reinterpreting virtually gained knowledge in
real life. At that time, my brother was not more than one year old. So if we
want our children to be able to understand the simple concept of picking and
holding objects, then putting a tablet in their hands is not going to do the
trick. It is also important to note that the engagement of children is heightened
when they actively take part in what is entertaining them,
like outdoor activities, not when they are being entertained by
a screen.
In conclusion, restricted screen time is
the answer to all the problems posed by the use of digital devices. Firstly,
access must be denied entirely to very young children (below five years) at
home. The only exception for these kids using the devices should be during
school-time. Secondly, children between five and ten years of age should have
monitored and time-constricted screen time. Parents must also learn to be
assertive about these rules and must always try to supplement benefits from the
screen time by teaching the kids new things on gadgets such as basic animations
and reading. Finally, it is imperative for parents to always remind children of
all ages about the harmful effects of using digital devices.
If these three things are kept in mind, then even if our
children are born with Pandora's boxes, they can still learn to live with them
and also use them for the betterment of society and the future.
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